Kerukunan umat beragama merupakan suatu bentuk sosialisasi yang damai dan tercipta berkat adanya toleransi agama. Toleransi agama adalah suatu sikap saling pengertian dan menghargai tanpa adanya diskriminasi dalam hal apapun, khususnya dalam hal agama. Lalu adakah pentingnya kerukunan umat beragama di Indonesia? Jawabnya adalah iya.
Kerukunan umat beragama adalah hal yang sangat penting untuk mencapai sebuah kesejahteraan hidup di negeri ini. Seperti yang kita ketahui, Indonesia memiliki keragaman yang begitu banyak. Tak hanya masalah adat istiadat atau budaya seni, tapi juga termasuk agama.
Walau mayoritas penduduk Indonesia memeluk agama islam ada beberapa agama lain yang juga dianut penduduk ini. Diantaranya adalah Kristen, katholik, hindu, dan budha adalah contoh agama yang banyak dipeluk oleh mayoritas penduduk di Indonesia ini.
Setiap agama tentu punya aturan masing-masing dalam beribadah. Namun hal ini bukanlah alas an untuk berpecah belah dan berbeda. Sebagai satu saudara dalam tanah air yang sama kita harus menjaga kerukunan umat beragama di Indonesia agar Negara ini tetap menjadi satu kesatuan yang utuh.
Namun yang terjadi di Indonesia akhir-akhir ini justru sangat bertentangan dengan hal diatas. Beberapa kelompok anrkhis seperti yang telah diberitakan di banyak media pada waktu itu merupakan suatu penghiantan atau kejahatan yang dilakukan atas nama baik sebuah kesatuan Negara.
Negara Indonesia sangat mengakui adanya berbagai macam agama di wilayah Indonesia ini. Dan hal ini pula sudah tercantum di undang-undang dasar ’45 serta di Pancasila, yang menghendaki kerukunan bagi rakyatnya dalam keberagaman agama di Indonesia ini. Hal ini menunjukkan bahwa seharusnya penduduk Indonesia berjiwa pluralis yakni menjaga kerukunan antar umat beragama tersebut. Walau pun berbeda, tetap satu yakni Bhinneka Tunggal Ika seperti yang tertulis di kaki Garuda pancasila Indonesia.
Lalu dengan hal yang seperti ini, masihkah ada alasan untuk memusushi atau malah menggangu agama lain yang justru mereka menghargai islam, misalnya?. Semua sudah jelas bahwa sebagai penduduk Indonesia wajib hukumnya dalam menjaga kerukunan antar umat beragama.
Islam pun yang menjadi agama terbesar di wilayah Indonesia ini juga sangat menghendaki adanya kerukunan dalam perbedaan berbagai macam agama. Hal ini telah banyak di terangkan di berbagai hadist-hadist Rasululloh SAW. Dan juga dalam al-Qur’an. Seperti surat al-kafiruun, dan lain sebagainya.
1.2Rumusan Masalah
1.Apa yang di maksud dengan kerukunan beragama dan islam itu sendiri?
2.Apa Implikasi dari menjaga kerukunan beragama tersebut?
3.Bagaimana agar supaya kerukunan agama tersebut tetap terjaga dalam kepluralisan agama di Indonesia ini?
1.3Tujuan
1.Untuk menjelaskan tentang maksud kerukunan Bergama dan definisi dari arti islam itu sendiri.
2.Untuk menjelaskan adanya Implikasi dari menjaga kerukunan beragama tersebut
3.Untuk menjelaskan bagaimana agar supaya kerukunan agama tersebut tetap terjaga dalam kepluralisan agama di Indonesia ini.
BAB II
Pembahasan
2.1 Islam dan Kerukunan Antar Umat Beragama Menurut Islam
Kata Islam terambil dari kata ‘salima’ yang bermakna ‘selamat sejahtera’, dan setelah dibentuk menjadi ‘aslama’ yang berarti ‘ menjadikan selamat sejahtera’. Kata ini juga memiliki makna menyerahkan diri kepada peraturan dan kemauan Allah, karena ia diturunkan dan bersumber dari Allah SWT. Dari makna ini sebenarnya Islam bukanlah suatu agama baru. Semua agama-agama yang dibawa oleh para Nabi-Nabi sebelum Nabi Muhammad SAW juga adalah agama yang pada prinsipnya mengajarkan untuk meng-Esakan Allah SWT, beriman kepada zat dan sifat-sifatNya, beriman kepada kitab-kitabNya, beriman kepada rasul-rasul dan hari akhirat, serta mentaati seluruh perintah Nya dan larangan Nya. Q.surah 42 asy Syura ayat 13. Jika kemudian timbulnya agama-agama di luar Islam, hal itu disebabkan para ahli-ahli kitab mereka berselisih tentang kebenaran al Qur’an, yang berakibat timbulnya perpecahan dikalangan mereka. Sebagian dari mereka yang yakin, masuk kedalam Islam, sebagian yang lain menentang keras, bahkan memusuhi dan memerangi umat Islam.[1]
Islam adalah agama rahmatal lil’alamin, yaitu suatu agama yang memberikan kesejukan, kedamaian, keselamatan, dan kesejahteraan tidak hanya kepada pemeluknya, tetapi juga kepada umat lain, bahkan kepada seluruh makhluk dan alam semesta. Sebagai agama rahmatal lil’alamin, ia mengajarkan kepada umat manusia bagaimana menghadapi dan melaksanakan kehidupan yang bersifat pluralistik. Historis keberagamaan Islam pada era kenabian Muhammad SAW, masyarakat religius telah terbentuk dan telah pula menjadi kesadaran umum pada saat itu.
Dalam kehidupan yang plural, Islam mengajarkan setidaknya empat hal pokok, pertama, sebagai agama tauhid, Islam mengajarkan adanya kesatuan penciptaan yaitu Allah SWT. Kedua, Sebagai agama tauhid, Islam mengajarkan kesatuan kemanusiaan. Ketiga, sebagai agama tauhid Islam mengajarkan kesatuan petunjuk, yaitu al Qur’an dan Sunnah Nabi SAW. Keempat, sebagai konsekwensi logis dari ketiga pokok tersebut, maka bagi umat manusia hanya ada satu tujuan dan makna hidup yaitu kebahagian di dunia dan kebahagian di akhirat.[2]
Untuk mewujudkan kesatuan fundamental tersebut, maka setiap individu muslim harus berpegang teguh pada ajaran agamanya dengan jalan mentaati peraturan-peraturan Allah yang dirumuskan di dalam al Qur’an dan Sunnah Rasulullah SAW.
Terjadinya peristiwa penusukan terhadap Asia Sihombing dan Tiur Lindah (pengurus Gereja HKBP Bekasi), bukan merupakan tindakan spontan yang dilakukan oleh 10 pelaku. Artinya, para pelaku penusukan dan pemukulan itu bukan disebabkan rasa iri dan dengki melihat orang lain melakukan ibadah sesuai keyakinannya, tetapi lebih disebabkan ekses dari tidak dipenuhinya peraturan pemerintah yang dituang dalam Peraturan Bersama Menteri- bahwa untuk membangun sebuah rumah ibadah harus memenuhi kretaria yang telah baku di negri ini, yang ketentuannya juga disepakati oleh seluruh pimpinan agama-agama yang ada di negri ini, termasuk pimpinan Gereja HKBP. Jika kemudian tidak atau belum terpenuhinya Peraturan Bersama Menteri yang tertuang dalam Nomor 8 dan Nomor 9 tentang kerukunan dan keharmonisan antar umat beragama, seharusnya pimpinan Gereja HKBP dan jemaatnya tidak secara emosional dan memaksakan diri melangsungkan kebaktiannya setiap minggu di pemukiman yang penduduknya mayoritas beragama Islam. [3]
Semua orang di Negara ini, dijamin keberagamaannya, tapi tidak lantas semaunya, yang kemudian secara massal melakukan kebaktian di pemukiman yang pemeluk nya berlainan agama. Pemaksaan pelaksanaan peribadatan seperti itu menunjukkan arogansi agama, yang tidak cuma menganggap remeh agama lain, tetapi juga melecehkan pemerintah dengan tidak mengacuhkan peraturan yang sudah disepakati bersama.
Mungkin masih segar dalam ingatan setiap individu muslim di negri ini, ketika Arswendo, melecehkan Nabi Muhammad SAW lewat angket yang dibuatnya, kemudian diterbitkan Tabloid Monitor pada tahun 1990. Peristiwa itu kemudian menguak dan merembet ke soal hubungan antara Islam-Kristen Protestan/Katolik di Indonesia. Selama itu banyak kalangan menilai hubungan kedua agama itu sedang aman-aman saja. Namun dipihak lain menilai bahwa ada semacam mesin penggerak di balik sikap seorang figure (tokoh) yang wujud akhirnya melahirkan angket tersebut dan meletakkan Nabi Muhammad SAW di bawah tokoh –tokoh abad 20. [4]
Secara hakiki, tidak ada satu agama di dunia ini yang lahir untuk bermusuhan, menghina, mengejek, menjelek-jelekkan agama lain, atau menganggap orang lain adalah domba-domba sesat. Tapi seperti disebutkan di atas, dari rasa superioritas, kepongahan dan merasa lebih hebat, kemudian penganut suatu agama tega menghina penganut agama lain, tanpa alasan yang jelas, apalagi berdasar ajaran suci agama itu.
Dari sinilah biasanya terjadi pertentangan secara terbuka antar pemeluk agama. Bagi kalangan yang berkepala dingin dan berpikiran jernih mungkin tidak habis mengerti, mengapa hal seperti ini masih saja terjadi dan masih tidak malu dilakukan pada manusia berbudaya, di zaman global dan dalam alam yang memerlukan suasana persaudaraan yang hangat untuk menyongsong berbagai tantangan kemanusiaan yang semakin berat, masa kini dan masa datang.
Kerukunan antar umat beragama di negri ini akan bisa terlaksana dengan baik, bila semua pimpinan agama dan umatnya masing-masing mau menahan diri. Tidak merasa lebih hebat dari umat lainnya. Namun apabila pemaksaan kehendak dan merasa superior, maka hal itulah yang membuat tidak rukunnya umat beragama. Bukankah kata rukun itu bermakna ‘satu hati’ untuk saling menghargai dan menghormati yang lain. Demikian juga dengan pimpinan Gereja di jalan Durung N0 61 kelurahan Sidorejo Kecamatan Medan Tembung, seharus nya mau bercermin dari kejadian di Bekasi itu. Toh umat Islam yang mayoritas di tempat itu tidak pernah mengeluarkan rekomendasi agar rumah tersebut dijadikan tempat kebaktian. Untuk itu pemerintah dan MUI harus segera turun tangan sebelum hal-hal yang tidak diinginkan terjadi. [5]
Manusia ditakdirkan Allah Sebagai makhluk social yang membutuhkan hubungan dan interaksi sosial dengan sesama manusia. Sebagai makhluk social, manusia memerlukan kerja sama dengan orang lain dalam memenuhi kebutuhan hidupnya, baik kebutuhan material maupun spiritual.
Ajaran Islam menganjurkan manusia untuk bekerja sama dan tolong menolong (ta’awun) dengan sesama manusia dalam hal kebaikan. Dalam kehidupan sosial kemasyarakatan umat Islam dapat berhubungan dengan siapa saja tanpa batasan ras, bangsa, dan agama. Dengan kerjasama dan tolong menolong tersebut diharapkan manusia bisa hidup rukun dan damai dengan sesamanya.
Kerukunan adalah istilah yang dipenuhi oleh muatan makna “baik” dan “damai”. Intinya, hidup bersama dalam masyarakat dengan “kesatuan hati” dan “bersepakat” untuk tidak menciptakan perselisihan dan pertengkaran pemaknaan tersebut dijadikan pegangan, maka “kerukunan” adalah sesuatu yang ideal dan didambakan oleh masyarakat manusia. [6]
Kerukunan dalam Islam diberi istilah "tasamuh" atau toleransi. Sehingga yang di maksud dengan toleransi ialah kerukunan sosial kemasyarakatan, bukan dalam bidang aqidah Islamiyah (keimanan), karena aqidah telah digariskan secara jelas dan tegas di dalam Al Qur'an dan Al Hadits. Dalam bidang aqidah atau keimanan seorang muslim hendaknya meyakini bahwa Islam adalah satu-satunya agama dan keyakinan yang dianutnya sesuai dengan firman Allah SWT. dalam Surat Al Kafirun (109) ayat 1-6 sebagai berikut:
Oh…..god….I never imagine like this before it. The place with the first time we inhabit isn’t like in the brochure that we look at. Oh god…….the place is worse than my Islamic boarding school that have I lived one years ago. But according to my lecturer I and all of my girl friends after this will move to the place with better than it. And I hope the information will be true.
Actually I have felled that I will not be nice in pare, because the first of my intention is study in Arabic course. But after I think again, I study to obeyed my lecture with expectation take barokah from my lecture. And I have motivation also from my friends in pasuruan more over my special man. But more over again my parents.
After praying west prayer, in my camp there is a program that is English study club. There I study about debate. I like it so much. But before I active in that program, with the tutor I and my friends get to introduce our self. And I think the friends is friendly.
In debate I try to be active student. The theme of debate is “teacher Vs book”. I always ask the opportunity to the tutor to say what my reason, although the rule is we must be able to give our reason just one time. And finally the tutor give me three opportunity to say what’s my reason.
After went home from that program, there are many boys that ask my phone number. But my attitude is naturally. And now I must be serious to deep my English to be better than before. I hope, I can speak English very well, listen the conversation of English well, and I can understand the English text or every things about English. I must be spirit and always patient in every condition. Thanks God…….for this opportunity that have You given to me, and so many people that always hope this opportunity. I Love U God…….
Hm…..maybe enough for here my story in this day. I hope, the day that will be come better than today. Oh god help me plisssszzz……………..give me spirit, give me the useful science, and pliz develop my English god…………..because if the obligation of this year I must study in English course, I wanna capable in English. With dominate in listening, speaking, grammar, writing, pronounciation, and singing English. But not waka-waka song………
Key my diary…………….bye….bye…bye….
Pare, 26th of July 2010
Written by Ulyatul Mustarsida El-Zafira
Pare, 27th of July 2010
Study Grammar, study Grammar again……huffttt
Last morning is my second course about English. My tutor is Mr. Bin. He teaches us about grammar. Actually I have bored study about grammar in English, but willy nilly I must join it. Oh god…..when will I can study about the others basis of English? Islike Listening, writing, etc.
But its start from last morning, I have made intention that I may not give up because of the condition. I believe that there are many roads ride roma. So I’m sure that after have come from pare, my English (speaking, grammar, writing, listening, etc.) will be better than before and I must do it for the best award in my life. Because I wanna success for life.
When I was studying about grammar, my tutor tought me about simple present, past, future, past future and the kinds from them. And when the tutor give us a task, I try to speed up my talent in grammar. And fortunately I can get the best value. But actually isn’t it that I’m looking for.
And last time, I get the first speaking lessons. The tutor is my room mate, her name is Mrs. Ima. Its make me easier to ask about something in English.
And mainly, in this day when I was get the lessons of English grammar I just hear it, without writing it. But when the tutor gave us the task I do it, and I try to do it very well.
Pare, 27th of July 2010
Created by: Ulyatul Mustarsida El-Zafira
Pare, 28th of July 2010
Where are You my motivation?????????
I don’t know why….???? Started after I got up last morning, suddenly I don’t have spirit to face this day. To do anything I’m very lazy, take course, and others. Yeah maybe because my special man didn’t call me last night. And the others that, I have many problem. Hufftt….all of them make my spirit losing. No one can give motivation, except the special human in my heart, for the example my parents, my special man, and some one who can understand me. But willy nilly I must do all of the activity in this day. Take course from a half past eight o’clock until seventeen o’clock.
When I was doing all of that’s activity, I didn’t mood, and spirit. So maybe not at all the lessons that can I got from the course. I’m confiusing. Actually where is my motivation???? Is there any one who can give me motivate beside them??? Oh god…give me a spirit. I don’t want, if after one month I’m here, I don’t have progress in my English. If will be like that, really I will be the unlucky woman, and of course!!!! I don’t want all of it will happen to me.
And now, I try to look for, how the way I can spirit again without motivation from the special man, that cant always attend beside me, when I need someone to help me. But until now I still cant!!! Oh god please,,,,,,,give me a certainty, so that’s I will not depend on my spirit to him again. I wanna make my intention be strong, and of course, I must get manythings that have to be my goal.
Until afternoon I still don’t have spirit. After have a west prayer I joint the study club In my dormitory. I hope I can get the entertainment of there. Really I was bored started last morning until afternoon. And my prediction all right. I can get the entertainment in study club. The study club tonight is very funny and make me always laughing. But just a moment. After that I got the fourth course until nine o’clock.
Ow yeah…today I have funny story. My girl friends, exactly aisyah, riska, and lina, get the bad condition. Because of what????? Can some one guess it???? Okey I will story to you.
In their room there is a problem that is there was an animal that very disgusting. That is an insect in the bad room. They cried because of it. But different story with my and Rea’s room. We are one roommate with our speaking tutor. In this room the smell is very bad and never make us nice in our sleeping.
Oh god………. I think all of it, just an obstacles from you. I do hope that you will give us the happiness in the future.
Okey….. I think just it that can I write for this night. And don’t forget to always pray for me…uuuppppzzzz pray for us…..heheheheheheh
Okey…. Have a nice day……
Pare, 28th of 2010
Created by: Ulyatul Mustarsida el-Zafira
Pare, 29th of July 2010
What Happen With Me??????!!!!!!!
The first time I get my English grammar lessons I always say that I’m sure, I always can to do it. But, in fact, the English grammar is not as easy as in my image in all this time. And when there is exercise about exclamatory sentence, and I get seventy nine!!! Actually I’m very sad. But I try to be cheerful girl! Although I know that all of my friends wonder about me. But I just take it easy to face it. Because I know that people live in this world aren’t always there is in on, but sometimes we can there is in under. But that’s is something from god to us, how we can face and behave all. Live in the world is like there is in a circle. We will not make a change if we aren’t never want to moving. And when we have brave to moving it will not be impossible if some times we will down!!!.
And mainly, I have studied from all of that have happen with me. I’m sure, that I can do the best. I’m also sure, that I must study to the experience that have I undergone. Because I believe that experience is the best teacher for us, is it right guys??????????
Another about my lessons, why am I now often thinking about my special friend???? Whereas I know and I aware that he is not everything for me. And until now I can live, I can smile, and I can whatever without him.
Oh god……..please help me. I don’t want if my activity can disturb because of him. But I try to behave all of it with a normally human being, moreover I’m now as the young man. So I think that is normally for me. But one point for me is, how the ways that must I do to face it.
Key……………maybe enough for here that can I tell to you about today. I hope I will be able to do the best and get something better than before. I always hope like that. I always pray to my god so that I’m given easiness to do whatever that can useful for me, for many people around me, wherever I present, and whenever people need me. Okey have a nice day for you all………………. Bye bye bye bye bye………………….
Pare, 29th of July 2010
Written by: Ulyatul Mustarsida El-Zafira
Pare, 30th of July 2010
How so Nervous Speech in New Place and New Friends………
The first time actually I don’t know if my speaking tutor and also my roommate choose me to be speaker in the meeting program tonight. Oh no…. really I don’t have preparation about what must I speech to night. Moreover my tutor said that the theme is free and I must memorize it! Oh god…..you know in all this time I never get duty like this. If I got speech in my Islamic boarding school last time, the teacher always give me time, most little one week. But this is no……..one day is not. Maybe just twenty hours. Really guys…. I’m very confusing about it. I think hard, hard and hard. And finally I get the title that is “the miracle of prayers”. Whatever it is, bad or good, mainly I have done my duty.
Before I get the title, I have sent message to all of my friends to give me ingress about the title that must I speech tonight. But all of different. I’m more confusing than before. Oh god……………help me please………………
I study hard, and I try so that I can to do the best. I do the best for my lecturers, my friends here, and I have built my brave because of my parents and my special friend in my heart.
In that day, I always hope that the time will be moving slowly. And I hope that tonight so long will be come. All of my friends said to me, that I must be able to!!! And I must sure, I must do the best. Spirit……………..spirit……….spirit…………I say in my heart.
And when the time come true. The place is out of in my image. the audiences sit in the big hall. Oh god…………….I’m so nervous…..cool….and whatever I feel when it. And my friends (mrs. Riska) say to me that if she becomes me, she will so nervous. Oh no…. I just can pray and behave take it easy. And finally when the master of ceremony call me, I come forward and I speech whatever I can. I give my speech a song from Michael Jakson the title is “ Give thanks to Allah”. I speech with a louder voice, and I know that all of my friends will say to me that how loud your voice Ulya………………and I will answer with smiling up man…………………………hehehehehehehe
And finally when I have gone down my friends said to me…. “oh…..I think your speech just now is fair and good……good Job Ulya………… I like it” hohohohwwww thanks my friends,,,,,,,,,,,but I think that is my bad speech. But however I have done whatever I can. That is my talent and I must proud about it, and certainly I must make a progress, and must have increase in my English. I have made promise to my self. And certainly I must do it…..
Key………………….maybe just it that can I tell to you about today and tonight. I hope all of you will wish me luck. Thanks for all……………..I love You so much.
Pare, 30th of July 2010
Created by: Ulyatul Mustarsida El-Zafira
Pare, 31st of July 2010
I’m going to Miss You My Best Friends…………..
After five days I’m here, actually I’m still boring here. I’m not survive here because of the condition, situation and others. Although all of my friends said to me that in Pare I’ll get new experience, new friends, and will be remembrance that will not be able to forget. But until now, I haven’t feel all of it. But I always hope and wish that whatever my friends said to me will be reality in my life here. I know that life can be change whenever and wherever I want. It is depend on us, we want to make transformation or not.
And last morning I met my last friend. His name is Wawan. He is studying in IAIN Wali Songo University. He gets scholarship also. I’m very happy when I meet him. We are the best friend when we were in Islamic boarding Al-yasini. He said to me that I am fatter than before. Oh no I’m so shy when he said to me like that.
Yeah…..my situation I think there is transformation after I meet with my friend. Moreover when I know that his friends Maz Hanif also come here. “Oh….I wanna meet him wan…..”,I said to my friends. I know to Maz Hanif because we ever take a walk together in Surabaya when My friends wawan would come back to Semarang after he went home in pasuruan.
And in the Last night Maz Hanif send message to me. He invites me to meet and take a walk together. Oh…..exactly he invites me when I’m very boring in my dormitory. And we meet in front of al-mujahidin dormitory. After we meet there, my friends wawan send message to me, he invites me dinner together with me. Oh…..I’m very confusing.
And I say to wawan that we will meet in the three junction asparaga street. And I meet there, with wawan, maz hanif also, and wawan’s friend “Ipenk”. Oh we are kidding there. And after long time we are kidding, wawan say to me, “ how Ulya……will you join me and Ipenk????” and I answer “ oh sorry wan I’m so full now. Maybe in other time we can have dinner together” I answer. “oh…..ok…with a pleasure,” he say.
And after wawan go to look for a meal, I and maz hanif pass on our trip. We aren’t using bicycle, so we just talk a walk. I don’t know where we will go, but I feel, I’m very happy. Maz hanif show me there are many place in pare. The place that I’m interest that is in garden of mosque an-nuur. We are so long time there. Until nine o’clock. And I invite him to go home.
When we are together, there are many story and best experience that can I get from him. I like him you know……oh no…..I just consider him as my old brother. He tell to me when he was teaching in his Islamic school moreover in girl’s class. I think that is funny story and I’m so interest in it. Moreover when I know that he can to read the yellow book, oh…..it’s my characteristic husband you know. Hehehehehe…..
Hmm…………..I think tonight is the most pleasurable as long as I’m in Pare. And I will not be able to forget it. I hope we will be friend ship forever. Although our distance so far, but you know………out of sight out of mind. Maz Hanif…..wawan……really,,,,,I’m going to miss You all………………
I hope we will be able to meet again in the others opportunity.
Pare, 31st of July 2010
Created by Ulyatul Mustarsida El-Zafira
Pare, 1st of August 2010
Why do I feel so boring now????????????
Hmm………..now is Sunday. Today, my English course all of free, so I can have there are many time to spend my holiday today. But what happen with me??? I don’t have spirit to do anything today. My friends mbak Tuha, Rya, Lisa, Invite me to talk walk go to swimming pool. Hm…maybe the distance from here about 3 kilometers. But I don’t want. I don’t know why???? Usually if there is someone or if I have many times, I spend it with talk a walk to any where. Although I don’t have money. I do all of it, because traveling and shopping are my hobby. But today I’m very boring and so lazy to do anything. And finally I spend my morning Sunday in bedroom until eleven o’clock.
And actually I feel so boring always in bedroom. Suddenly my best friends Maz hanif send message to me, to accompany him go to warnet. Ouh……I feel so agree with that invitation, because I have a program also, that is send email to my lecturer in my beloved university in Surabaya.
When I will go there, my friends mbak lina wanna join with me, she wants to send email also like me. And she also will meet with her friends that will visit her here.
In warnet, I cant open my email. I’m confuse to send my email. And maz hanif invite me to use his email first. And I agree with that invitation. At last I send my email use Maz hanif email. And after that I spend my time in warnet with face book and watching the movie in that place.
When I go home, I go home with him. And there are many my friends who knows us, oh I’m very shy when my friends joke me with my Maz. But whatever I never care to what my friends say. As long as I feel that I true, I take it easy to face all of my friends say.
Pare, 01th of August 2010
Created by Ulyatul Mustarsida El-Zafira
Pare, 02th of August 2010
Finally, I Can Move to The Better Dormitory…… Thanks God
Huft…..at least I can move to the better dormitory god….in all this time I have waited it and just now I can moved. You know, my dormitory is so beautiful in nice place I think. I and all of my girls friends to be one’s room, and our room there is in the second floor, and in front of our room there is garden, bicycle park, and then TV room. Hm…this is so good place I think, and can make me more spirit than before.
In this room there is one tutor, her name is Mrs. Mia, she comes from Jombang, I think she is so kind and funny tutor. She is still nineteen years old, but she has married after she graduated from her senior high school, but she never one house with her husband. Hm……I think that is funny story in the house hold. And I aware, this is world, many kinds event that can happen on it. Is it right guys????????????
In this my new dormitory, so near with my grammar and speaking class in the morning. So we can minimize our time than before. If I’m alone, I can increase my time to sleep, and I can get up when eight o’clock. Hehehhee………sorry deh my lecturers, really I’m so tired here, but I promise to you, I will make an increase in my English, and will stop the decrease, really I wanna make progress in my English. I just wanna ask to you all my lecturers to wish us luck…..ok???????????
I think that’s all the story that can I tell to you about today, I hope tomorrow will be better than today, because I just wanna happy and happy in all of my days, as long as I’m in Pare. I think, to night I will be able to sleep more nice than before. This is my last night mare, I hope. Okey…..my diary, my lecturers, and My beloved God.
Pare, 03th of August 2010
Make Increase in Our Achievement, it is So Difficult…….
Oh…………..god so difficult I think to make an increase in my English. Five days ago, I got my bad value in my English, that is seventy nine, but now the value of the exam every weekend, I can get the best value, that is ninety. But I’m not still satisfy because of it. Hehehehe……………..I wanna my value be perfect. But whatever I must give thanks to Allah.
That event in the morning, so different I think with what happen to night. In the exercise of my grammar about noun, I just get eighty eight. How can I decrease again in my English. What happen with me???? And what happen with my English????????it is so difficult I think to make an increase in my English. But whatever I must study hard, and must be able to make anything better than before. I will shy to my friends, my lecturers, if I cant make the progress in my English. Because my friends know me that I can in English. So that’s why, I always try and try to make increase in my achievement.
I think, it is normally when we undergo the difficulty to make an increase in our achievement. Because to make it in our life, need the strong struggle and the strong desire. But all of is depend on us. How we build the achievement in our life. If we really, and really desire, I think we will be able to make it.
And about my English, I really, and really want to make an increase. I wanna can speaking fluently with the foreigner, to my lecturers, moreover Mr. nadzir. And I also want to can make a writing in English, so that can be read with all of the people in this world. Actually I wanna be a woman, that can fly to wherever countries in this world. Because I wanna know the secret of the successfulnessin the developed nation.
Hm….I think my story too large and too many. Maybe just it that can I write now. I’m so sleepy, so that’s I wanna sleep……..good night and have a nice dream…………..
Pare, 04th of August 2010
I’m so Hungry Now……………………..
You know……..started last morning I haven’t eaten. I’m so busy, after taking a course at half to twelve o’clock, directly I slept and after that I got up at three o’clock, and directly take a bath, and then have an afternoon prayer, and then went to take course again. And when I went home, I forget to bring my money. So that’s I directly go to my dormitory, but before I arrive in my dormitory, on the way I met with my friend. We talk on the way, about many things. Until the a call to prayer of west prayer heard. And I finished my talked with my friend. And then I go to my dormitory. After done my west prayer, in my planning, I wanna buy rice for my dinner, but there is obstacles again, that is the time of study club started too early than before. Oh god………..really I’m so hungry now….
After I get the study club, I go to take a course in camp three. I go home at nine o’clock. But I’m forget again to bring my money. All of my friends has gone home. Oh really I think today is a bad day for me. I go home to my dormitory, to take my money, but after I arrive in my room, I don’t know, suddenly I sleep. And when I get up, the time is ten o’clock. Directly I go to the inn in front of my dormitory. But in the inn the rice is finish up. Finally I just can buy noodle to make my tummy full. But really, the noodle still cant make my stomach full guys……….. I want to cry actually. But whatever maybe just it my sustenance for today.
Huft………….I’m so tired because of it. I hope tomorrow I can make my tummy full than today. But I think that event today can make my economize money. Because I undergo the crisis of my money. I always ask to my friends, and also my friends always ask to me, “actually when will the money of the scholarship will be descend????”
Hehehe………..to my lecturers,,,,, can you answer that question????????????
We are just kidding my lecturers….but if really you will answer it, you can send message to us. Really……..we all undergo the crisis in our money.
Okey………..maybe just it, I wanna sleep first, I don’t want to undergo this night mare. I wanna finish it. Have a nice dream…………………………
Pare, 05th of August 2010
Wow……….Fried Chicken in Bali House so Nice…..
As long as, I always dream to can eat fried chicken in Bali house, the rich inn in this pare I think. Because the place is like in the restorant in the city. And when I will have a lunch there is my friends who Invites me to have a lunch there. And she gets me to deliver same foods that I want. And of course I deliver the fried chicken there. You know how praise there???? Just six thousand guys, and the flavor in that inn is so nice. More nice than in KFC. If you don’t believe you can come here, and invite me to came there, I will show to you.
But I cant to ceaseless it to eat like that. Because of what??? Because my money is not enough guys……….so willy nilly I must live in the simple life. I know and I aware that my purpose to come here is not talk a walk, but for study. So I must be able to live in the simple life. Yeah………..that is that always my mom said to me, wherever I attend. Because my mom very dislike if I live too much.
Okey……..guys….actually I’m so lazy to write something here. I don’t know why??? Maybe because my special friend now is getting sick.But I just can wish for him, to can health as soon as possible. Because I like him so much….hehehe…although here I have there are many boyfriends, but the special one in my heart just him. All of this feel are normally right?????? But now I often think about my self. What a play girl I am. And all of my friends just can shake one’s head from side to side, see me like that. But I just easy going to all of that happen with me. Mainly I happy in my condition, and not disturb my study. Because whatever that can disturb my study, willy nilly I must throw it from my life. Because now I have duty from my community in my village, from my parents, my teachers in my Islamic boarding school, my family, my lecturers in my university, and this country certainly.
Okey…………….I think enough for here right, I hope tomorrow will be better than today, good night……………………….
Pare, 06th of August 2010
How Can My Pulse Lose Again???? xL so Annoying…..
I’ so sad now…………my pulse lose again, whereas this card that is xL is there are many bonus for short message send (sms), I cant sms-an with my friends, and I cant call them. Oh….how sad I’m today. Really I never dream and imagine about it. Moreover my money rest so little. Hm…………really I’m so bored to xL, I will kill you!!!
But whatever, all of has happened, and I must permit it. Lets gone be by gone. That’s word that can make me quiet. And all is well………..I believe it.
I really wonder, how can my pulse lose again??????? Whereas I have tried to minimize my pulse. So that’s this pulse can enough until two weeks………… okey…..I think just it that can I tell to you. I don’t want to more annoying again because of it. Because really I boring now. When my special friends send message to me, I just can send message use my friends mobile phone. Okey I will do my home work and then I will sleep….have a nice dream for all of the reader of this writing……………………..
